The older I get, the more I realize that what is attractive to me in a partner has little to do with physical appearances — washboard abs, a flawless face, big muscles, fancy dinners, or lust between the sheets. It’s being able to have sentimental moments. Being respected through and through. Being heard. Having deep … Continue reading Attraction →

Jingle bells, send the elves! There’s a new elf in town, and he won’t wreak havoc in your household. Kids and pets already provide enough of that. Instead, this new elf encourages good behavior. This is how I changed the elf on the shelf story to fit my family’s needs. You might be familiar with … Continue reading There’s a New Elf in Town →

I miss doing hair. I miss the hustle & bustle of a Saturday morning during wedding season; and the humble confidence that bride exudes as she admires herself on the day she feels the most beautiful. I miss working 14 hours straight, fueled by nothing other than a large Dunkin’ iced coffee & a few … Continue reading I Miss Doing Hair. →

It’s not that I necessarily consider myself an overly “religious” person, however, I am very firm on the stance of what I believe and why I put my faith in God. Because of this, I have learned that when it comes to dating, I won’t date someone who doesn’t align with my same beliefs. I … Continue reading Why I Won’t Date Outside of my Religion →

It’s ok to not do what society says you should do. Your dream doesn’t have to be the “American dream” of working a 9-5 job and buying a house with a white picket fence. You don’t have to get married and have kids by the time you’re 26 while being a stay at home mom … Continue reading Your Dream Doesn’t have to be the American Dream →

Have you ever dated someone who doesn't "check all of your boxes" but they might have the potential to in the future? I'll be the first to admit that I'm guilty of doing so. Projecting someone's potential can happen in a variety of different scenarios, such as relationship goals, financial goals, and career goals. Seeing … Continue reading Never Fall in Love With Someone’s Potential →

Dear Mama, I see you trying to be the best mom you can be. I see you comparing yourself to other moms and feeling inadequate. I see your silent tears that you have so quietly hidden from the world. I see how much you sacrifice. I see your doubt, frustration, your heartbreak, and even your … Continue reading Dear Mama, I See You →

When you're in a new relationship, it's one of the most exciting moments to introduce that person to your friends and family. You have high hopes that since they have become such a contribution to your personal happiness, that they will also add a positive dynamic to your inner circle. However, sometimes expectations are unmet … Continue reading If Your Partner Doesn’t Invest in Your Family and Friends, They’re not for You →